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Fr John's avatar

Pailin is such a delight and enjoyment to watch on her videos. She is professional yet has a wonderful sense of humor. Now I know the proper way to eat Thai food. A fork and spoon!

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this was such a great video. i feel like many "you're doing it wrong" posts can come across kind of...bristly haha but this was friendly, simple, educational, and made lots of sense! i always use a spoon for curry (because of the "soup" factor) but in other dishes involving rice i struggled at times with chopsticks, and i thought it was just because i was lacking the skill. but now i feel relieved to learn it's actually because they're not intended for that purpose at all.

my partner and i are both white, born and raised in the US (RI/MA). i notice if i give him a spoon and fork, the spoon will go untouched. so if there is something i think a spoon is better for, i only give him the spoon. and he uses it without question - doesn't mention it or go to the kitchen for a fork - so it just goes to show how ingrained it is here that a spoon on the table for eating purposes (vs. serving/condiments) is odd and thus doesn't even register unless it's your only option.

i will say that holding a fork like you have seen western-world folx do is very strange to me also - i have never seen anyone do that (unless it was anchoring a piece of food to be cut with a knife) and i wonder if there are regional and/or generational differences at play. i've always used my fork like you show for thai food, except in my dominant hand of course. it's all very interesting!

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